Disclaimer: All this articles were written some years ago already (2013, 2014 and 2015)
Life is What You Make It
During high school days, students are really anxious on what they are going to be in the future - lawyer, beloved wife and mother, respectable teacher, etc. High school days are those times when we were highly spirited, full of dreams and aspirations, goals and gusto-ko-maging-ganito-balang-araw mode.
It is always amazing when those aspirations stay strong and firm after college. However, life has many challenges. It can sometimes be unfair. One thing I know, what happens after a decade is the most critical point. Checklist: good career, good lovelife and having your own family, financial stability, good relationship with friends and other loved ones, and the list goes on. ( at good relationship pa din pala kay God. Kung di pa pasado, pwede ba magpanic mode pag may time? haay.) Priorities, sacrifices, decisions, long term goals? Keeps getting harder and harder to think about. If only it's that simple to follow your heart, or should we lead our hearts to what's best for our lives? After all, life's what we make it. If only opportunities are floating bubbles in the air and can be found easily. Nah..just dreaming. So, for you worries and fears, please go away, and let us seize every single day. Carpe diem!
Holding Back, Keeping Up, Joggling Thoughts
Thinking about how we were as kids brings smile to our faces. It's always the days when life is simplest - when honesty means not cheating in classes, when responsibility means maintaining good grades, when socializing means playing with other kids, when financial management only deals with what to buy with what our parents gave us, and more importantly, it is the time when every one of us is in the worry-free-status and a MUCH MORE P-O-S-I-T-I-V-E person.
However, as we grow older and as we tend to experience life with crossroads, twists, turns and roadblocks, it became more and more difficult to decide. Even Not-Doing-Anything-Mode is something we also choose. Can we just request Him a NO-CHOICE-ZONE and everything is there for us to accept?!? Ooh well, we can't ! However it's our privilege actually to be able to make our own life stories. We may not always have good judgement but we can always try and learn.
Out of the Blue
The more you talk to a person, the more you miss that person. Do you have a feeling na kapag nakakausap mo siya, bigla mo lang narerealize, mas namimiss mo pala sya? Yun bang pakiramdam na hay-naku-why-on-earth-na-ganito-nararamdaman-ko!
I'm not a psychologist pero here is my own perspective: Memories is part of our daily lives and it has always its sweet-little-comfort-zones - familiarity of a place, habitual things being done, or those unique moments na magaganda at naitatabi na ating "brain modules" (sa dicitionary ko). Meron at meron bagong memories na papasok araw araw consciously or unconsiously and if there are changes na nangyayari, it might not be sinking in kaagad. But then, all of a sudden, out of a blue, may mga instances na makikita kang familiar sa 'yo at biglang may bagong pop up sa brain cells mo "missing! missing! missing!".
How's Your Day
When asked by others "how's your day?", we often say "ok lang." However, "ok lang" can mean everything. A shrug can sometimes mean "hay naku, hindi maganda. ayoko lang magkuwento".. or "it's just a usual day, seems like nothing happened" or it's being in the let-everything-pass-I-don't-care- mode. "How's-your-day" is a question that means, ano mood mo? Ano ginawa mo? Okay ba araw mo? Muzta ka? And how should we answer it? With a smile? With a sad face? With a long story? With "the shrug"? or a simple blank face? The list of ways goes on..
Oftentimes, at the end of every day, we are either unconsciously or consciously aware of what we have done within that day. Ano nga b ang pwede maging tema natin sa isang araw? Perhaps it's about regrets? or maybe, it's about dreams? Or goals? People are different but there's one naked truth about how we live our lives in every day: we all react. React to what? To different life's circumstances! Challenges? Cases? to necessities? It's the "nature-of-people-and life-as-we-blow-it-fact". And everything boils down to our level of satisfaction..are we glad enough? ..Can't tell..
Human nature as being unpredictable, can have different point of views of how to answer the question "how's your day", but for sure, it can always be something that's asking on how happy we are. Appears skin deep? Nah..other's think it's just something we can ask as a greeting. But for those whom we care, we ask this to open up a deeper conversation. So, how's your day?